Hello everyone!!! Please, I need some help... My mother-in-law seems to think that she should be the one doing the seating chart for everyone that is on her side (friends, and family). My fiance and I have been trying to tell her that this is something he and I do together (of course with input from both sets of parents about what family conflicts are going on, etc). My parents seem to understand that and so do other young newly wed couples that have just finished planning their wedding but his side of the family thinks it is disrespectful of us to assume we would be doing it ourselves. Let me know what all of you think! Am I right? Am I wrong? Am I totally out of line for thinking we should be doing this ourselves?? Thanks!