So I have four girls in my bridal party. My FI and I are paying for the dresses completely. We are also paying for the girls hair and makeup so if they have the shoes they want to wear, pretty much they're out zero cash for their day of attire. I have chosen a line of dresses with multiple styles (v-neck, one shoulder, illusion neckline, strapless etc.) and told them to pick from that and that they will be floor length since the wedding will, hopefully, be outside and May 1 in Iowa will most likely be slightly cooler. 3 of them are throwing fits about them. "I don't want to wear floor length. I want to wear knee length." "I'm going to look like a linebacker in these dresses!" "Not my wedding, but to be honest, I wouldn't have picked these dresses." (that's from my MOH) "Well, it's your wedding not mine, I'll wear whatever." I don't want them to be miserable in their dresses but I'm about at my wits end. I just have no idea how to proceed with them. And I'm not making them wear taffeta or shoulder pads for pity's sake.
Any ideas?