How do I choose my Maid of Honor??

Re: How do I choose my Maid of Honor??

• Maggie0829 member

  

  October 2014

  Have two MOHs.

  
  

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• climbingsingle member

  

  October 2014

  Have both of them be your MOHs. You can have two. 

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• holyguacamole79 member

  

  October 2014

  Knottie57979234 said:

  HELP!!!! I have 2 best friends that I love very much, but I don't know how to choose which one I want to be my MOH. How do I choose one

  with out hurting the other one's feelings? I love them both and I don't want to offend or upset anyone, and I don't want to lose a friend in the 

  process either. Any advice??

  I've been in a wedding where there were 2 MOHs.  It's totally legit. 
  

  
  
  
  
  

  

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• novella1186 member

  

  October 2014

  I agree with PPs. Have two. 

  
  

  If you're totally opposed to having two for some reason, wait till the wedding gets closer and then re-assess your relationship with each of them. Sometimes friends drift away a little and others get closer. By then it might be a clearer choice. 

  
  

  But I reiterate, just have two  

  

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• Maggie0829 member

  

  October 2014

  Or have no MOH and have everyone just be a BM.  I mean a BM and MOH do the exact same thing anyways.

  
  

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• peachy13 member

  

  October 2014

  The last wedding I went to the bride had both of her sisters who she is equally close with as her MOHs. It was really cute and the sisters did a combined toast that was very sweet, and they walked down the aisle together at the church.

  
  

  In all honesty, as PPs have said, MOHs are the same as BMs, it's just a title thing. I would say go ahead and ask both.

  
  
  
  

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• [Deleted User] member

  

  October 2014

  Have two or zero.  Either is valid.

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• alli1019 member

  

  October 2014

  Thank you all very much!!!! I appreciate it

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