I'm a lurker who only recently starting posting on chit chat. I feel like I should know the answer to this after all the lurking I've done, but I would love to type it out for you all and get some input.
We're having a small ceremony and wedding dinner - 20-25 immediate family members. My FI and I are fully hosting the dinner at a local restaurant immediately after the ceremony. We'll eat, hang out, and cut and eat cake there. I imagine that will be done around 7:30 to 8 pm.
My FSIL just suggested an after-party of sorts. Not far from the restaurant is a trendy little area with 3 awesome bars. We would head over there for drinks. Would it be bad to extend this to people who weren't invited to the ceremony and dinner? As in, emailing extended family and friends that we're getting married that day and after the ceremony/dinner heading to these places and they are welcome to meet us there if they like? We wouldn't be hosting this event. After being a lurker for so long, I really want to do this right.