My MOH doesn't live in the same city as me (both in big midwest cities that are easy to travel between by bus/plane). We've been good friends since we were in preschool. I really value her style and her opinion on things (I didn't even consider any of the prom dresses I tried on until she could come shopping with me). That being said, I would love for her to be able to come wedding dress shopping along with my mom and FMIL. As the MOH, she'll already have a little more responsibility than the rest of my bridesmaids and may end up spending a little more on the associated activities too.
Is it unreasonable to ask her to travel to come dress shopping with me? Could I ask her prefacing it with saying I value her opinion but that I understand it may be difficult/unfeasible for her do so?
Thanks for the help!