For my vow renewal, I have skipped some of the rules people mentioned on here and decided to make it my own (since it is mine). For some reason, I can't seem to make up my mind on if I should send save-the-dates before invites--should I? Also, is it too much to make a website for the renewal so people can RSVP and get other important details about the day? How do I go about announcing that no children are allowed? Thanks!