I just got engaged and this is my second and his first time. I had the big catholic wedding the first time with a large reception. I went all out. I want it to be a little simpler this time. But I just don't know how to go about planning and he wants to have his friends stand up in the wedding. I don't blame him and I know my close friends are looking forward to this wedding. They say I picked the right one.(my first one was a cheater). So just looking for opinions to see which is the right way to go?????