Right now, my dinner is scheduled for 5-6, which includes intro, blessing, toasts, cake cutting. That seems very rushed. Then with special dances and such we will only have open dance for about 1.5 hours, with the entire thing ending at 9pm. We are having an after party downstairs of the reception venue. However, I still feel like the reception will be very rushed and I'm not sure what to do. I want to have a good time and remember the entire day not run around like a crazy person doing x,y,z and trying to fit it all in to a certain cramped time period.
However, I do have the option of adding an additional hour which I want to do, but is it worth it? It will be around 1,400 to add the extra hour of open bar. OR close the bar and dance for an additional hour for $700 due to labor costs. This seems ridiculous to me- if there is no food being handed out and no drinks, where are all the labor costs coming from?! The staff will basically just be hanging out this hour and I know this is not their hourly rate. What do you ladies think? Is a 3 hour reception long enough? Or should I make it 4, with bar or no bar?