3:00-4:00 First Look and Couple's Portraits
[4:00 musicians arrive and start playing music shortly after]
4:00- 4:30 Quiet time in separate groom and bride rooms with wedding party and parents.
4:30-5:00 Ceremony
5:00-6:00 Cocktail Hour (serving food and drinks; possibility for everyone to sit; held in a room adjacent to the reception room)
[5:00-5:15 portraits with parents; 5:20-5:30 couple pictures outside; 5:30-5:40 wedding party pictures outside (we're getting married in a very cold winter setting so we decided to only do outdoor pictures after the ceremony in case the snow affects the girls' hair)]
5:40-6:00 bride and groom at cocktail hour to greet guests (+ candid shots of guests… we can't afford for the photographer to stay the entire evening so this is our way of having candid shots of guests)
6:00-6:15 Reception doors open Bride and groom "run away", guests are seated, bride and groom remain with the guests at the cocktail hour and enter reception room with whomever they are talking
6:15 Uncle introduces himself, welcomes guests, and invites bride and groom to have first dance
6:20 First dance (guests served glass of champagne during first dance)
6:25 Uncle introduces MOH/sister, MOH toast/speech (3 mins); uncle introduces best man, best man toast/speech (3 mins); uncle invites grandfather to bless the meal
6:35 Dinner starts (during the meal, parents may offer a toast if they want)
6:35-6:55 First Course
6:55-7:15 Second Course
7:15-7:45 Third Course
7:45 Desert is served and guests start eating
8:00 Uncle introduces BM as best friend to both bride and groom. BM toast/speech (3 minutes); special tradition to welcome bride intro groom's culture performed by groom's friend (it's a Newfoundland tradition called "screeching in" that involves kissing a cod and drinking a shot of "screech" rum); bride and groom give heartfelt thanks to everyone for attending and invites everyone to dance (1-2 minutes)
8:10 or whenever bride and groom thank is finished bride, groom, and wedding party start dancing. Start with songs that most people know, transitioning to more "fiddler-style" music, then playing a few fiddle songs, and then…
8:30-9:30 Fiddle band! (great for getting everyone on the dance floor)
9:30-12:00 Party! (reception "activities" - tons of party props and designated "photobooth" area)
12:00 Exit (could be earlier if party dies down sooner; our venue has a very tiny but amazing club in its basement so we may end up there with our friends for an after-party)
The original timeline was
3:00-4:00 First Look and Couple's Portraits
[4:00 musicians arrive and start playing music shortly after]
4:00- 4:30 Quiet Time (we wanted some quiet alone time before the ceremony to center ourselves)
4:30-5:00 Ceremony
5:00-6:00 Cocktail Hour (serving food and drinks; possibility for everyone to sit; held in a room adjacent to the reception room)
[5:00-5:15 portraits with parents; 5:15-5:40 wedding party pictures outside (we're getting married in a very cold winter setting so we decided to only do outdoor pictures after the ceremony in case the snow affects the girls' hair)]
5:45: bride and groom arrive at cocktail hour and greet all guests individually (+ candid shots of guests… we can't afford for the photographer to stay the entire evening so this is our way of having candid shots of guests)
6:00 Bride and groom "run away" and reception doors open
6:15 Uncle (MC) welcomes the guests and introduces us
6:20 First Dance (doing it right away so that we can have some pictures; photographer will leave at 7:00). Guests are given a glass of champagne.
6:25 (ish) Uncle gives a mini (2 minute) speech; then passes the mic to MOH/sister (3 minute max); and then Best Man (3 minute max)
6:40 First Course is served
7:00 Second Course is served
7:20 As second course is being cleared, Uncle introduces MOB; MOB speech (FOB passed away) (3 minute max); and then parents of the groom (3 minute max)
7:30 Third Course is served
8:00 As third course is being cleared, Uncle introduces Bridesmaid (close friend of both bride AND groom who was there the night we met); BM speech (3 minute max);"special" tradition to welcome bride into groom's culture (it's a Newfoundland tradition called "screeching in" that involves kissing a cod (fish) and drinking a shot of "screech" rum) performed by groom's friend who is also from Newfoundland; bride and groom speech thank everyone for coming (3 minute max) and inviting everyone to dance after enjoying desert
8:15 Desert is served
8:30 First "party" songs… we'll start with songs that most people know, transitioning slowly to more "fiddler-style" music, then playing a few fiddle songs, and then...
9:00-10:00 Fiddler band! (great for getting everyone on the dance floor)
10:00-12:00 Party! (reception "activities" - tons of party props and designated "photobooth" area)
12:00 Exit (could be earlier if it seems to be better)
(Our venue has a very tiny but amazing club in its basement so we may end up there with our friends for an after-party!!!)