So, just got married, also just moved. When we set up our two registries (BB&B and Target), I put my apartment address (different state). When I moved, I remembered to change the BB&B registry address, but not the Target one. Fast forward to the day of the wedding, family member mentions how convenient it was to just go online and order something as a wedding present instead of having to bring it on the plane. Cool, we are clued in. Didn't get anything the week we got back, figured it was because she didn't know if we were taking a honeymoon so she delayed shipping. I checked the registry and on the Target one, there are clearly items that were recently purchased off the registry that we haven't gotten. Still haven't gotten it and today I realized it would have been shipped to my old address. So I called my (super great and on-top-of-things) old apartment complex, and they haven't seen it. I'm on the phone with Target customer service right now (on hold, of course), but I'm not sure what else to do? Call the family member? Is there a non-tacky way to word "hey didn't you say you had sent us something because I have no clue what happened to it"? I obviously also haven't written a TY for the invisible gift, but as rare as those are nowadays, she might just think we are assholes.