My FI has his company party today. He may be hosting an afterparty at his / our place, and will 'let me know' if I can come.
I haven't fully moved in there (I don't want to leave my mom all alone so soon after my dad died, so we spent about 25% of the time at my moms place and the rest we live at his), but we buy furniture and food together, I cook and clean like it's my own place, and I can't go home after work because he's having an afterparty?!
I don't want to crash the party, I just want to go home, take a shower and watch Netflix. I can do that without bothering his co workers.
Sorry for the rant, am I over reacting?