So, There has been much debate in my circle of friends/family, and so I'm seeking out my snarky knotties who give the most honest advice and opinions!
I have been with my FI for 12 years now. We have been engaged for over 8 years, and have 2 beautiful children together. We met when we were very young...moved in together a few months after we started dating....not long after, we got engaged and found out baby #1 was on the way. We have finally become financially stable/comfortable enough to justify spending money on a wedding.
What I need your help with is...Instead of a gift registry can we do a honeymoon registry? FI and I have a home that is stocked. We are not having any showers/engagement party/or traditional gifty parties. Neither of us feel comfortable asking for gifts for a wedding that is happening 8 years and 2 children later than it "should have". Is a honeymoon registry tacky?!
My traditional family is flipping out about the idea..."no classy southern woman doesn't have a bridal shower and asks for money for a honeymoon" and others are telling us we should have "just go to the JOP this late in the game". Others are saying this is a brilliant idea.
So, SNARK AWAY! Thanks for the input in advance!