So we're both from different states, our families still live in those states. We live in NC. I want to get married in my state so that ALL of my family can be there, and becausey dad is having surgery a month prior and will still be recovering. His parents refuse to go because they're much older (70s) and say the drive would be too hard on them. Now we offered to drive them up and stop overnight to make it easier since they refuse to fly. We own a house next to his parents' and will be there before and after the wedding. Financially, it's best for us to marry in my state. On te list of reasons to marry in each state, we only came up with 1 for his state-because his parents will obviously be there since it would be at our house. Any ideas on what to do? We've considered getting married without them, having 2 weddings, or having it there. I we have it there, not all my siblings can make it, and none of my extended family would be there (whom I'm very close to). He has a total of 4 guests at either location.
