I'm having an adults only destination wedding but two of my bridesmaids have kids. Both of them will be 2 years old. Would it be ok to let them bring their kids, but not the guests? I don't want to tell the girls no since they'll be spending so much money to be in my wedding and I adore their kids, but I don't want the guests to get upset for not letting them bring their kids.. I thought about finding a babysitter for them, but then that's even more money for them to spend. Has anyone experienced this? What are your thoughts?