So my Fiancée and I are very non-traditional. We both have few but very close friends. I have decided to have a Maid of Honor (childhood friend that is unmarried) AND a Matron of Honor (married friend, met as adults). Well my beau decided he wanted to have 2 Best Men(same situation: childhood friend and a friend he met as an adult). If I have 2 why can't he?
Now I am wondering do we have all 4 give toasts? Tell them to decide? Or do we need to pick? If so, how do you choose? I really don't want to make our guests sit though a bunch of toasts, but I want to be sure that if they want to give a toast they can, I mean I don't think I will survive the next 3 months without all their help. What do I do?
I keep being told I worry too much about making people happy, but if I know someone is unhappy with me I wont be able to enjoy myself.