So we got married last August and the day poured rain so bad that many guests didn't show and it made our already pretty small wedding really small. (Tornado weather actually) so basically my pictures stink from all being inside a weirdly lit church and I have a lot of family that is pretty upset they weren't invited in the first place. I don't see a point in doing a 1 year vow renewal but I am thinking about throwing a laid back like "anniversary party"? No poofy, white dress, no vows, no wedding festivities, but more like my husband and I dressing up and good food and music with our family and friends with yes, a photographer to get those family pictures we didn't get. I feel like that sounds terrible. I know we can go get pictures made anytime ourselves, but I also feel like inviting family and friends to join in would be fun with great people. Is this a bad idea?