Hello all,
I was wondering if it is considered poor etiquette to not have anyone give toasts at the rehearsal dinner. My future-in-law's are hosting, and I know it's customary for the father and/or mother of the groom to give a toast, but my future father-in-law gets nervous speaking in front of large groups of people (which I understand; the thought makes me break out in a cold sweat too). As for the wedding reception itself, the best man and the maid of honor will be giving toasts (they both don't mind), but my father who is semi-hosting the wedding (my parents contributed a lot financially to help us out) has also mentioned that he would rather not give a toast. Is this okay? Should I try to find another member of the bridal party who doesn't mind speaking in front of large groups to give a toast at the rehearsal dinner? Should my fiance and I suck it up and just give a toast ourselves thanking everyone for coming?
Thanks for any replies!