My fiancé and I are having a destination wedding in May in Yosemite. We found a place that we absolutely loved, The Redwoods in Yosemite. All of our guests will be driving in, the longest drive being 4 hours or so. Many of the guests are staying the night. Should we host a rehearsal dinner of some sort? Our wedding is going to be very simple and laid back. Also, what is acceptable food wise? We wanted a lunch reception, but I feel this would be rude. We had guests drive all that way and then the ceremony and lunch and the rest of their day is free? Any ideas? I want everyone to have a good time, but my fiancé and I don't necessarily have the money to shell out money for a bunch of activities