I find it quite funny that people think because it is a destination wedding they can just invite themselves along for "a holiday." This isnt even our friends but rather friends of parents/family members who are going. Is this the norm for destination weddings?! I feel bad saying to my mum no these people arent invited as my mum is like "uch everybody is just really happy for you..." and its awkward but come on my FI doesnt know these people and we would never have thought of inviting them anyway.
I just find it strange as they wouldnt invite themselves to a wedding if it was at home!