I'm just curious. Thanks for playing!
To the people who advise "It's your special day, and you should do want you want", why? 144 votes
Following this advice is in the best interest of the poster. They only get one wedding, and anyone who isn't willing to [stand for the ceremony, leave their SO home, shell out big bucks for wedding party things] isn't a friend worth keeping.
I'm trying to be supportive because planning a wedding is stressful. Their mom or best friends will tell them the hard truths.
That advice is whack! Treating people well is more important than bringing your perfect wedding vision to fruition.
I confused poll with pool, and now I'm sad there's no sun deck or swimming.
Some other reason I will explain below.