How do I tell my parents I no longer want their financial input in my wedding, because I no longer want their decision input in my wedding? The entire planning process, they've done nothing but put down all my and my fiance's ideas, from theme to location to invitations, and we can afford to cover the whole wedding ourselves if we do it the way we want to, and just cut back a little on decorations and guest list. How do I tell my parents we don't want their help without making them feel unwanted?