I am having a spring wedding, and I LOVE all these pastel color combos I'm seeing all over the internet! Blues, Purples, Pinks, Yellows, you name it! I almost wanna use EVERY single one (mostly because I cannot choose)! But I'm having problems figuring out how to use them. For instance, if I throw a bunch of random pastel colors everywhere, my wedding will look like a big ol' Easter basket, or a 3-year-old's birthday party...And my fiancee says he does NOT want those bright colors on his groomsmen, even as accents, because they simply look "too girly" (which, I can't help but agree that his particular groomsmen would look pretty silly in most of those colors).
So, I guess what I'm looking for is some pastel color combo suggestions, keeping the aforementioned problems in mind. What colors should the flowers, linens, bridesmaid dresses and groomsmen accents be all together?