So I ran into an interesting scenario. We have a family friend with a 20 year old daughter who I used to be friends with (she is the type of person who only contacts you when she needs something, or asks your advice but doesn't follow it, etc.). My FI and I are closer to her parents so we decided to invite them and kept her name off the envelope.
Her parents received the save the dates today. I get an angry Facebook message demanding to know why she isn't invited (our wedding is this October and it's not even the invite!). I bean dipped her, but out of nowhere she goes "well my mom said my dad won't go and I'll go in his place!"
I really don't want this to happen. So when the invitations are actually sent out and I keep her name off them, is there a tactful way to prevent a switch aroo from happening, or would it be similar to parents RSVPing for their uninvited children?