I should start by saying that I went into this with hesitation since the friend I asked to be my MOH was very anti-marriage.
She seemed thrilled when I asked her! I straight out told her not to do it if she didn't want to because I know how much she doesn't like being in weddings and how she thinks marriage is "stupid and a waste of money." She explained she would be honored to be mine.
Fine, time went on and everything I asked her to do with me was a hassle. She has told me where and when I am getting married is stupid, she doesn't like the colors, that I will need to plan my own bachelorette party, etc. She even came to my first dress fitting and told me, "Well, that was not what I was picturing" and never once said that it looked good on me.
She has since gotten engaged and all she wants to talk about is her wedding now! For the last year I haven't been able to talk to her about my wedding and now all she can think and talk about is her own. I am having a hard time trying to be supportive to her when she hasn't been for me. My fiancé has suggested I replace her with someone that actually cares since she just stresses me out more.
My question is, can you do that? And more importantly, am I just expecting too much?