So. My youngest step-sister has a child whose going on 2. My step sister is 21. Over the last month she and her boyfriend (baby daddy who she lives with) have gone through a very public on facebook break up. He was cheating on her, not doing a very good job of covering it up, etc. She broke up with him two weeks ago, reconciled and broke up with him again this past weekend. They live in a shitty roach infested house in FL. They moved down to be near his family when she was pregnant (and because they didn't pay rent on their apartment in PA). She has no degree, and is working as a hostess at a chain restaurant. She's constantly posting asking if someone can watch the baby for a few hours while she works. Her parents and my Mom and step-dad have all told her she can come home and they'll help, but she doesn't want to leave FL take the kid away from her ex. Which is admirable, but 5 minutes after posting how she wasn't going to bad mouth him, she posts one of those damn caption pictures "Why lie to me and lose my respect when you could have told me the truth" pictures. Girl that's bad mouthing him. And given all the at the beach party posters his new squeeze as posted (This is basically like a Maury episode) I fear that he's not going to be around much, and certainly more as a babysitter then a real parent.
We are not close, but is there anything I can do to help, or does she just need to land on her ass (even harder) before she wises up?