I foolishly RSVP'd yes to my friend's out of town bachelorette weekend without asking what the activities would entail (the invite only gave the location). When I got the group email that they rented the house (price was not given), planned for fancy night outs, dinners and brunches each day, I realized this would be out of my price range, especially since I'm already paying a lot for another bridal weekend (which I'm in the bridal party). I emailed the coordinator and told her I couldn't go, but that I would still pay for my share of the house rental since I RSVP'd before it was booked. I figure fair is fair. She replied and was appreciative that I'd still contribute, but then said that other people are also dropping out and that she'd get me the total when she knows the final number.
Now I'm thinking - is it fair that I'm covering the cost of other girls dropping out who apparently aren't paying? I suppose at the end of the day if other people are dropping out and refusing to pay their share, the extra cost needs to be absorbed by someone. But if I'm not going should I also be part of that pool? Should I say anything or just suck it up?