Hi all,
My fiance and I are getting married in late May. We created our guest list last July and sent out Save the Dates in October. Our invites went out a few weeks ago and based on our RSVPs thus far, our headcount at the reception will total about 3/4 of those invited at the most, largely because most of our single guests have opted not to bring a +1.
Here's our situation--FH started a new job in November. He's grown quite close with his coworkers. We had long discussions about whether to invite his coworkers, but our hands were essentially tied as we had only budgeted for the guest list as it stood back in July. Now that it's looking like we'll have fewer guests than anticipated, I'd love to extend an invitation to these coworkers since they've become such an important part of FH's life over the past several months. However, I'm genuinely concerned that the invite will come across as "hey look, we have space for all you riff raff now!"
Should we invite FH's coworkers, or would it come across as disrespectful?