My 6 year old asked me yesterday if she can call my fiance dad. Her biological father is still in her life but only on an every other weekend basis. No contact between and she has already stopped asking to call him before bed because in a year he has answered the phone one time and doesn't return calls. For awhile I still had her call but it upset her to tears when he didnt pick up... cue a pissed off momma. Anyways, would it be more confusing for her to call him dad at her age though? I've told her that doesn't mean that J*** isn't her dad anymore and fiance will be her step dad. After we told her we were getting married the first thing she asked is when she would get a baby brother or sister. He's okay with being called dad, her father I haven't gotten to talk to. So who's had to deal with this already?