One of my close friends asked me to be in her wedding which was super exciting....until I realized how much I'd be spending. About $1000. I don't have an income so this amount is far beyond what I can afford. The thing is, she knows I don't have much money, but has not once asked me for my budget. At this point, she's planned everything and the BMs are expected to pay for it. This includes dress, hair, make-up, hotel, bachelorette party events, and so forth. I thought I could just opt out of the events I thought were optional, until she guilt tripped me into going to everything. Im just feeling frustrated because she has shown no consideration for my financial status. She's made comments like "Oh I can cover some expenses if it's a burden for someone", but that just seems like a pity comment and makes me feel bad that I have no money. I'm just in this terrible position because she and her fiancé have a very "It's our wedding so we're doing whatever we want to do" attitude, which makes it really difficult to talk to them. But backing out will be a friendship-ending move and I don't want to do that. Do I just bite the bullet and try to hash things out with her after the wedding is over? God forbid I say anything now and become "that" BM. Help!