Hi all!
My FI and I are getting married 7/29/16 on a Friday evening. We're having the ceremony and reception at the same venue. This venue has a beautiful alley with globe lights strung across it and beautiful brick that lines it. I want to take advantage of this romantic/italian-esque scenery by having our ceremony AT NIGHT (which summertime in ohio would mean about 8pm or 830).
I realize that's incredibly late, so we are opting to have a cocktail hour starting at 7pm where we will serve drinks and a good portion of our appetizers/food to fill guests up. With this, I'd like to do a first look earlier in the evening and get a lot of pictures out of the way so we can both make appearances at the cocktail hour to mingle with our guests.
Then the guests will be guided to the alley for the ceremony which will be short and sweet (30 min) and then back into the venue for the reception 9pm-12am. I think we will serve a pizza bar (or something like that) with a dessert there.
So this all seems like a good plan up until the guests getting into the reception. I definitely want to have enough seating for everyone to sit if they want but would this even require assigned seating? How does timing work with the food stations/speeches/etc? Will people just instantly want to dance? How can we make the transition from ceremony to reception seemless? I'm open to any ideas!!
Additionally-- If I make an appearance at the cocktail hour before-- should I wear something other than my wedding dress to keep the shock factor for my guests at the ceremony or what? so many thoughts.