So my FH and I have set the date and have a general idea for guest count. Recently though we have tossed around the idea of doing a no kid wedding. Right now if we were to let everyone who is invited bring their kids we would have something close to 40 kids attending. That's a lot of little mouths to feed that we don't really have the extra money to spend,plus we don't get special prices for kids. I mean 40 kids is its own little party in itself. I also believe that there are a few people who wont come because their kids would not be invited. Knowing that really upset my FH and I, we want everyone to come and have a good time. The other problem that we are facing is the fact that my nieces and nephews are in the wedding party and would be attending the reception. I don't want people to think that it is we were playing favorites because they see a few kids. It really is not about the kids I don't mind kids it really comes down to the price for everything.