Two months into my engagement and I am already realizing I made a huge mistake with one of my bm's in particular. A few of the other girls, while they are close friends - I do wish I would have thought about it a little more before asking, but that isn't a big deal.
Has anyone every regretted a bm and/or asked told her you didn't want her in the wedding? What was the situation? What happened?
While I called this girl one of my best friends (even wanted her to almost be a "co-moh"), it finally took me getting engaged to realize we aren't and never really were. The friendship had it's place in college and shortly after but it's like once the next stage of growing up was suppose to occur, I went and she's still stuck wanting to be 21. I should have noticed the red flags with her when I was just dating my fi but I chose not to. Honestly, I don't see our friendship lasting further into my adult life... especially not once I am officially married (yes, I am an adult, I am 27 and she just turned 30).
Everything from the dresses I have liked, to the venue, to my ideas... she's had something negative to say about it and pulls the "I am just saying this because I am your BFF" - she's already caused me and my MOH to have a disagreement and we NEVER argue.
I literally feel like I am in a bridal party joke.