Before the wedding, I was against changing my name for a lot of reasons. I don't think my first name sounds all that good with his last name, it's a lot of work, I feel like my name is part of my identity...
...but now that the wedding has happened I think I might want to change my name. I wonder though if the only reason I think I want to change it is because I want something to be different. We were living together for three years, I didn't change my name, etc. etc. so really I just have a new ring and now I refer to him as my husband (which I am STILL getting used to!). I wonder if it will feel more real once we get our professional pictures back. I do like the idea that changing my name makes us seem more like a team, but I also feel like my current name is my name and I don't want to let it go.
I'm not sure what I should do. All the reasons I had for not changing it are still true, but I just sort of WANT to change it now. Has anyone gone through something similar?