We sent our STD out already for our Sept wedding (yay!). Now one of our couple friends are married and we obviously addressed it to both. We are both friends with both but I would say overall my FI is closer to the guy than I am to the girl. However, I am close enough to the girl that I invited her to my shower. The thing is we moved 2 hours away so neither of us see them as often as we would like. ANYWAYS. My FI tells me yesterday that we can't invite the girl anymore because apparently there is a restraining order and she tried to stab her husband and they are now going through a messy divorce. We did not know these people were having problems or let alone unstable. Everything seemed great a couple months ago when we saw them last. I told my FI we already addressed the STV and I invited her to my shower and it would be rude and tacky to not send her an invite and they would just have to work it out who is going. But now I'm paranoid there will be unstable drama going on at my wedding. What do we do???
To be honest I think I am most shocked that she tried to stab him??? WTF who does that....