Let me just begin by saying that I love my future mother-in-law, I think she is great but she doesn't seem to be prioritizing our wedding.
Our wedding is two months away and she has not yet begun planning the rehearsal dinner, everytime she is going to meet with a venue something comes up and she has to cancel. She works at a high school so my fiance just kept telling me that as soon as she is on summer break she will start working on it but now its been three weeks and we aren't any further than we were.
I am not sure how to approach the subject because I do not want to upset anyone. I also have the problem of her not wanting to spend too much money which I completely understand, it is more important to my fiance and I have our family there than to have a fancy formal dinner. We have recommend several places that our more casual and just doing heavy appetizers but she always shots us down saying that is not nice enough but I have my aunts coming from out of town to help me the whole week before the wedding and I do not feel comfortable telling them they cannot attend when they will have helped so much.
Please help me figure out how to approach my future in-laws and get the ball rolling?