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Number of bridesmaids?

My 2nd wedding, his 1st. He wants 4 groomsmen. We are only inviting about 55 people, including them. 

If I have 3 or 4 bridesmaids, a flower girl and ring bearer, and he has 4 groomsmen, is that going to look ridiculous? 

Re: Number of bridesmaids?

  • Jells2dot0Jells2dot0 Cowtown mod
    Moderator Eighth Anniversary 5000 Comments 500 Love Its

    It's totally fine to have that many BMs/GMs. It can be uneven sides or equal. The whole BM/GM thing is that you are asking those you see as your nearest and dearest to stand up with you as you marry. It's a honor to be asked and if you want to honor that many people, then go for it!


  • Awesome, thanks! I think you're right. Uneven it is!

    Why is it that just having one stranger agree or disagree can make such a big difference on how we feel about something? lol.
    AddieCakeViczaesar[Deleted User]
  • AddieCakeAddieCake Beyond the Wall member
    10000 Comments 500 Love Its Fourth Anniversary 25 Answers
    Sounds great!
    What did you think would happen if you walked up to a group of internet strangers and told them to get shoehorned by their lady doc?~StageManager14
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