1) I just found out that my BMs are planning what I assume is a bachelorette next week, 2 days before the wedding. Should this get a separate gift just like the shower?
2) I assume that the "big" gifts for the BMs should be significantly larger/more expensive than what I gave each of them for the shower?
I am kind of at a loss. My MOH is my sister, she's easy to shop for, but I'm still learning FSIL's preferences (FI swears she has returned every gift he's ever gotten her and is no help) and my other BM and I are good friends but haven't exchanged birthday gifts since college (and then they were smaller and inside joke-y, which I'm guessing isn't appropriate here).