Hey everyone! With just 3 weeks left its crunchtime for us to get the seating arrangement together. My fiance and I put together something preliminary to get the ball rolling, and we gave the spreadsheet to our parents to look and and rearrange their respective sides of the family if needed. My mom got super upset when I put together a parents and grandparents table. I thought it would be nice for the grandparents to meet and for everyone to share dinner together. Then I felt as if I was imposing our ideas onto our parents, so I asked my FMIL to put together a table for themselves if they wanted to change it. She said it would be nice to sit parents and grandparents together. His side is really trying to get to know my parents. My mom is being difficult and wants to sit with her family (which is kind of unfair to my dad anyway). I feel bad saying my way goes to my mom since both our families are splitting the wedding costs 50/50. We are high school sweethearts and our parents have known each other for 6 years, but mine make no effort to be welcoming to his unless we force them to be together, then they are civil. My mom is turning into a momzilla, she already took over our half of the guest list with her family and friends. Is it too much to ask for them to sit together? I feel at this point it would be rude to separate them since his parents already said yes to the idea of sitting together. Opinions/ideas? Thanks in advance!