My fiancé and I are going to have a pretty large wedding party (possibly 8-9 for each of us). One of my best friends is a guy and I would love to have him in my wedding. However, he isn't really close to my fiancé. If he's in the wedding, I want him to be standing with me and my bridesmaids. Is it weird to have 9 groomsmen on my fiancé's side and then 8 bridesmaids and 1 guy on my side? It doesn't bother me at all but other people that I have talked to about this thinks it's a little weird and that he should be on the side with the groomsmen (which I don't agree simply because he's my best friend, not my fiancé's). I have heard of a Man of Honor, be he won't be that since I will have my sister as my Maid of Honor. I can't imagine that this has never been done before. Any comments, advice, suggestions would be great! (Maybe I am overthinking this and should just do what I want anyway)!