I've spent hours looking for an affordable caterer. My fiance and I also don't want dancing. Primarily, I want us to enjoy drinks, dessert, and watch the sunset (gorgeous view from the reception area).
I realized a cocktail reception might fit better: no dancing and no catering headaches; just mingling, drinks and dessert. We'd save easily $3K. I suggested it to my fiance and he didn't say much, which probably means he wants the dinner. I also know he doesn't want to to first look photos...and I told him pre wedding photos would be easier if we did the cocktail reception.
If we did this, I'd use this rough timeline:
6:30PM ceremony begins
7PM reception starts/bridal photos finish (assuming we did most of the photos pre-wedding)
7:30PM bridal party arrives at reception
7:45PM toasts and cake cutting
8:00PM mingling while the sun starts to set (officially goes down about 9PM)
Any thoughts, suggestions or experiences? Has anyone done a cocktail reception?