Hi Knotties...As stated, not wedding related, but wanted to get your opinions/experiences.
I'm largely a lapsed catholic, and haven't been to regular mass since going off to college. Now ten years later I'm more settled, starting to talk about a future and family with my SO, and looking to find a parish I can join and participate in wholeheartedly.
There are two churches nearby that I've looked at but I wasn't...taken(?) with them. I'm afraid this is something more wrong with me than the church, since I also sat in on a church-dedication mass at my parents parish that I used to be a part of, and left the service feeling...less than blessed?
I do think this is an issue my SO and I should be tackling together. I know he has a family priest that he was an altar boy for, and was very involved in the Latin mass church he grew up in. Sadly, he's been less involved since his mother passed away recently and she was a huge part of his traditional Catholic upbringing. I've asked him for his preference or a recommendation, but don't want to push too hard.
So really... What did you ladies do? What was important to you in the parish you joined? Would you travel further away from home to find one that "fits" best?
Thanks all