*venting, I feel so terrible*
I want to first say, that my bridesmaids and the moms planned a beautiful bridal shower and I am so grateful! But........
My bachelorette party and bridal shower were (in my eyes) A DISASTER!!! The bachelorette party was such a mish-mash of last minute things and nothing that I really wanted to do, my MOH even asked me beforehand what I'd like to do for it. On top of it being so stressful because nothing was really planned for it, (now I love my mother and FMIL dearly!) the moms tagged along for the party and I felt like I was being chaperoned the entire time and just in general didn't have a good time. The bars that we went to were completely dead and it was a Friday night! And half the people that said they were going to show up, ended up being no-shows which really hurt.
My bridal shower was so nicely put together, there was a mimosa bar and little snacks and whatnot, and out of almost 40 people who were invited, 21 RSVP'd yes, and only 4 people showed up. It was one of the most heartbreaking days I've ever had. I was looking forward to seeing a lot of my family and friends and no one bothered to show up. I've tried to put these events past me and just brush it off, but nothing has worked! I felt embarrassed that there was all of this food and drink and place settings and 4 people came.
I just feel like I've been jipped out of the whole fun experience that is a bachelorette party or being able to feel special for a few hours at a bridal shower. I am still heartbroken and feel so terrible.