I'm in a sticky situation. Not sure how to make my brother's wife and finance's brother's wife feel special. Here's the facts: I have no sisters of my own so they are the closest thing I have. We're close but not exactly besties. I already have TEN friends who I asked to be bridesmaids (having no sisters has made all my friends a really important part of my life). PLUS one of my sister-in-laws is pregnant and one JUST had a baby. (They are the first grandchildren in either side of the family so it's a big deal - maybe I could honor them too?). My main reason for not making them bridesmaids is the baby thing. I know they are already going to be stressed taking care of the babies. Plus there is no way I can have 12 bridesmaids. So what do I do? How can I make them feel special? They are technically my only "sisters".... Oh and I guess I should also mention that I was a bridesmaid in my brothers wedding last year so I'm worried his wife is hurt that I didn't ask her to be one since I was one for her... Ugh this is all so complicated HALPPPPP. Ps my wedding is in one year.
Update: just wanted to clarify I'm not exactly looking for advice on whether or not to include them as BMs. I already decided that was a no. But more looking for ideas or gifts or just some special way to show them they are important to me. Not necessarily AT the wedding or anything. Just a cool "sisters" idea I guess? Thanks for the responses!