For the last several weeks I've been looking everywhere for some small sentimental gifts for our parents for the wedding. I finally found stuff that I think they'd all like. For example for my FMIL who loves bracelets I found one that I thought she'd really like and on the inside it has the option to engrave it and I was going to have it say something like "Thank you for raising the man of my dreams, love your new daughter" and for my dad who always has a hankie I found a site that will embroider a personal message to him so I had one typed out saying how much he means to me. So anyways it's stuff like that for each of our parents and i was planning on writing a letter with my FI to each of them as well as a thank you.
Well I was showing my fiance what I found to see what his thoughts were and he got kind of upset and said he didn't know we were supposed to get them stuff and that there was no way he could compete with my thoughtful gifts. I'm not sure why he's surprised I've been asking him for ideas while looking but I guess he didn't understand what I was asking and that's probably why I've gotten no feedback from him. I really felt like I stepped over a boundary with him. Then he was saying the gift should be from both of us and I realized he's totally right and my gifts were very one sided. So I told him that was fine and I didn't mind changing the wording on all of it so that it's from both of us but then he was upset with that and is now saying no get your gifts and I'll just add a gift card or something.
So was I in the wrong? Should I still order the gifts but change the messages or should I just order them as is and let him add a gift card or do whatever he wants?