I just need to let this out for a minute.
FI and I are getting married Sunday (yay!) and were talking last night about the timeline for the wedding day. We have access to the venue several hours before the ceremony starts, so I am getting there early to get ready. I told my bridesmaids they could get there early too if they want to, so we can get ready together and spend some fun time together. I'm providing food and drinks for anyone who gets there early because, duh, I don't want them to starve.
There is both a bridal suite and a suite for the groom at our venue. Both have TVs with cable, large tables, couches, full bathrooms, etc. I told FI last night that he and his groomsmen can get there as early or as late as they want to, as long as they are there in time for pictures. He asked me what time pictures are, and I told him. They will start about 2 hours before the ceremony so we can be sure to be finished in time. Pictures will only last an hour, and then we have a small break (30 minutes) before guests begin arriving. All of a sudden he starts saying that he doesn't think his groomsmen will like that and "we may have a hard time keeping their attention for that long".
I'm thinking, umm.... There are TV's in the suites. And I am not asking them to come 5 hours early and sit around, all I'm asking is that they are there in time for pictures. Also, these men are 30+, not 5 years old. IF they choose to get there early, there is TV. They can watch football. They can go throw a football. They can play games on their phones. I don't care!
I'm sorry, but FI's comments annoyed the crap out of me. Am I out of line? I am trying to do everything I possibly can to make sure that the wedding party and our guests are comfortable.