So, im getting married in 16 days!! Yay! Im super excited. But i feel disappointed in my bridesmaids. And im not sure what to do.
So since the beginning ive felt like my bridesmaids have not put in the work or cared enough to do anything for me except for one. My friend brittany did my whole bridal shower which was super sweet of her. For my bachlorette party, i ended up having to do pretty much EVERYTHING though. My maid of honor wanted to wait until the last minute to book and plan (like the week before), so i had to take matters into my own hands. I put the hotel on my card, paid for all the cab rides, my fiance paid for the hotel for one night, and i even paid for some drinks. My MOH and another bridesmaid ditched me during my night out on the bachlorette because their "stomach didnt feel good" and they werent even drunk. Only one girl gave me a good portion of money back and my MOH forgot to pay me for everything. And this was a month ago. Since the the bachlorette ive tried contacting my MOH to talk about wedding details and she acts like she is too busy to talk and i dont know what to do. Im getting really frustrated. Money aside, i feel like they dont care and its almost like they just want to show up the day of and thats it. Ive been planning the whole wedding by myself. I even had to ask my own mother to help me out. His family hasnt done anything either. I feel alot of disappointment and that ive seen who my true friends are. Im trying be positive but i cant help but feel resentment towards some people. What now