Hey snarky brides-
Our venue has required us to choose an "alcohol person" (a guest) to speak to anyone who is "out of line" at the wedding and needs to be cut off. Apparently this is not typically used but must be on file. Our venue is beautiful and pretty pricey, so this isn't a small barn run by some uptight people who own it. This is an actual wedding venue listed on The Knot with rave reviews.
I'm sorry but I just think this is so rude. Fi and I have our final details meeting coming up and have put this off since June. I hate the idea of asking any of our guests to do this. I offered to do it myself but Fi doesn't want me to. The venue doesn't want it to be us. But we're both so uncomfortable with this. Also, I doubt we'll need to have anyone be spoken to. One of our guests - a grown adult - did recently destroy a hotel room after a Red Sox game when he got completely drunk and let the bathtub overflow..he's the only one I worry about. In my opinion if someone is out of control the venue - who I am paying thousands of dollars to - can handle it. What are your thoughts? Has anyone else heard of this?