I attended a wedding on 9/12 and gave the couple a card with a check in it. The check still hasn't been cashed. They went on a one week honeymoon, and I saw them at my own wedding 3 weeks ago. Do I ask the bride to see if my card was received and not lost or just patiently wait? I checked w my Mom and she said her check was not yet cashed either. I find this annoying but don't want to come across as rude by asking the bride (she is the daughter of my mom's best friend).