So I have a very male dominated sales job. My company alone employs about 50 salespeople and I'm the senior of 3 female sales reps (with about 8 years on the job). Its a dealership style business, our main manufacturers' North American HQ is in the Carolinas as well as many of my customers.
I've been in business long enough to know that sweetie is inappropriate but also that not everyone who uses that term means it in a deragatory way. But it does seem that 99% of the time a colleague or customer calls me that they're from the South. I know we have a lot of Southern ladies on here so I was just wondering what your experience with the word is. Is it a cultural thing, an age thing, or on par with "Bless your heart?"