My wedding is 01/15/16. My sister and her mom are event/wedding planners. They have been involved this whole past year, basically knocking everything I planned. I wanted to cancel the wedding at least five times because they had me so frustrated. At First they tried to get me to wear my sisters wedding dress. Using my love for family to try to guilt me. Then they tried to take over the whole wedding, because they work in the wedding industry ( for the past two years) BUT its my wedding. Not theirs. Finally we are almost there I ignored most their vindictiveness , got my beautiful ball gown, decided on my décor and wedding favors regardless. Now its almost time, I asked them if they had the design for the centerpiece to show me. Her mom was all, um Its a surprise, this is our wedding gift to you, you have so much else to worry about, let use worry about the décor.....NO NO NO... Am I wrong for putting my foot down? I told her no you will show me what you are designing. How am I not going to have any say in my ceremony and reception décor? Only the décor I picked, made or bought for the lobby. So ready for this day to be here. I just wanted to enjoy planning my wedding and its been a nightmare. Plus the fact that they told my fiancé that he better get used to spending a lot of money if he is going to be with me because I have expensive taste, Yes I do, I work really hard to buy nice things. I'm not going to apologize.